He had a profile set up, without pictures, and wasn't completely truthful about some of the stuff he had put down.I'm trying not to worry because maybe he just made it before we were dating, but I still can't help to wonder "what if..." Is this normal for guys to do (kind of like looking at porn), or should I be as worried as I'm trying not to be?But i'm not sure what i should do, should I just confront him about it, or do I wait and see if he uses the site? I'm sure your head is spinning in all sorts of directions. It would be really hard for me to keep that inside . Say something like you just aren't feeling as close as you would like and you'd really like to work on it, maybe counseling. You are a great girl---- and for him to have betrayed your relationship this way is too painful. and signing up for a site like that means he isn't having an affair . good luck First, let me say that I am terribly sorry----------- that is really stinky!! but I'm thinking maybe you could approach him about your marriage. but I think some emergency marriage repair action is in order.But then if he actually uses the site, I don't know how I'll handle that. I don't know any marital history----- has he done things like this before? You want to have the best, closest most honest and awesome relationship you can and want his help. The fact that he hasn't done anything yet is good . I'm sure your head is spinning in all sorts of directions. It would be really hard for me to keep that inside . Say something like you just aren't feeling as close as you would like and you'd really like to work on it, maybe counseling. You are a great girl---- and for him to have betrayed your relationship this way is too painful. and signing up for a site like that means he isn't having an affair . good luck Thanks, I'm just all jumbled up right now.but we got back together and i thought we were on our way to work things out. why is he on this site if not to look for someone else.. I was also thinking that If he goes on a date I just turn up. At the same time I could just join i and address the issue might as well while I'm there...😳 Leave. I was at some point doing things that scared me because I would never do such thing.But for some reason my gut told me something was off.yes! I found on his computer chat conversations he was having with random girls .. In one of those chats he introduces himself."such in such" from POF.. The profile says hes just there looking for friends, that he isnt seeking commitment or relationship. However all other info like city and age are also false. It was a kind of self harm which again nobody knows because I find it embarrassing.Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. But even if he did you'll always be suspicious about how faithful he can him for his password for the account.
Yeesh...obviously he is keeping his options open, give him the boot and find someone else. Ever wonder why he's not gone to the not single status?
We have had our issues and he has gone to counseling to fix himself. We have had our issues and he has gone to counseling to fix himself. I just found on his email that he had signed up for two more websites just two weeks ago..we had gotten into a never went through the full registration and never went onto the sites again.
when i asked him about it he admitted it and said he was wrong.
If he cares, and I'm sure he does, he'll delete the account and apologize to you. Don't let crap roll downhill into you, take action!
Maaan...you really need to ask the forum for help on this one?